Message from Bob & Gina McConihe
February 11, 2016 1:49 PM
Becky, we were very saddened to read of Barry’s passing and offer our deepest sympathy to you. We have fond memories of Barry and his whole family.
We will be comforted with the knowledge that he will be with his Brother, Mother and Aunt Mattie.
Cousin Bob and Gina McConihe from Haverhill
Message from Art Moores
February 10, 2016 5:46 PM
Hi Becky, so sorry for your loss! I have known Barry for many years, but it was this pass summer I got to really know him. Wow what can I say, he was a very special person. He so loved you, couldn't wait to have you come home. He never complained, all he ever wanted to know was the time. He would ask me over and over is Becky coming home soon! When I said she should be here in a few minutes, his face would light up. Knowing you would be home soon would put a big smile on his face. His love for you was unconditional, you were his world! That was all he ever thought about! Barry had a super personality, and loved life. He very much valued all the friendship he shared with family and friends. Barry will be greatly missed, but he will never be forgotten. May all the beautiful memories you shared together bring you great comfort during these difficult days . My thoughts and prayers are with you, and your family at this time.
Message from Virginia Amore and Family
February 10, 2016 12:16 PM
We are so sorry to hear of Barry's passing. Please accept out deepest sympathy. There were many wonderful times and memories from Oakside Avenue.
A candle was lit by friends at HUB International
on February 10, 2016 8:19 AM
A candle was lit by Linda & Julie Ratte'~Memories will keep your light
on February 9, 2016 7:31 PM
Message from Colleen McCann
February 9, 2016 2:04 PM
Becky,
I read this posting today and thought of you ...
Grief - I had my own notion of grief, I thought it was a sad time that followed the death of someone you love, and you had to push through it to get to the other side. But I'm learning there is no other side, there is no pushing through, but rather there is absorption, adjustment, acceptance. Grief is not something that you complete, but rather that you endure. Grief is not a task to finish and move on, but an element of yourself - an alteration of your being, a new way of seeing, a new definition of self.
I'm thinking of you as you find this new definition, I'm here for you now and from now on as well. I know it's been a long struggle for both of you. xoxo Colleen
Message from Lisa Wheaton
February 9, 2016 11:12 AM
Becky, I did not have the pleasure of meeting Barry, but based on his obituary I can see he was a wonderful man and will be sadly missed. I hope your memories of him will live in your heart forever. I am sending you a big hug and please do let me know if I can be of any support to your during this time. Love. Lisa Wheaton